Awakening to TruthLove thru the decades; yesterday was Valentines Day in many countries around the world, and yes we in the Banks household celebrated it too. The day began with the common exchanges of greetings, the chocolates and flowers and yes the exchange of cards. Yes we participated in the consumerism of the day, helping... Continue Reading →
The Conundrum Over the past couple of months, my wife and I have been working on marriage material for our ministry. The material is based primarily on Ephesians 5:21-33. Verses 23 to 25 really caught my eye as a man and husband. It states “For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head... Continue Reading →
It has been a while since my last post marriage, and a lot has happened during that time. God closed the door on my job of five years, the one that brought us back to Texas after 20 years in Alabama. In the midst of the tension and chaos, God has been working, He is... Continue Reading →
Way Point 4 - Relational Maturity Preface Greetings, dear friends welcome to the final waypoint on our journey to oneness. It doesn't mean we have arrived, it simply means we have reached the farthest point to which we can go, relational maturity. As always I want to preface our discussion with this call out. While... Continue Reading →
Way Point 3 - The Adolescent Phase Who remembers the awkward phase between childhood and adulthood? When you felt you were old enough to take care of yourself and make your own decisions, but your parents knew otherwise? If you are old like me, you remember snippets of time but not the details. It might... Continue Reading →
Way Point 2 - Conception of the Marriage Relationship Jack and Jill went up the aisle, one day to be wed. In front of God, and in front of man, Their vows were boldly said We promise now to love one another, no matter, come what may. To you my dear, I will be true,... Continue Reading →
The Starting Waypoint - Twoness In our last session we discussed the marriage relationship and the concept of becoming one. Unity in will, thought, and purpose. Striving toward the same goal in one accord, and no, I don't mean a Honda. How does a couple obtain such a lofty state of being without losing one's... Continue Reading →
Discerning the Distance In life there are many forms of relationship. Family, friends, acquaintances, enemies, spouses, just to name a few. Each having its' own set of challenges, and its' own reward. The human existence was designed for relationship and the sooner we understand that, the sooner we realize the importance of relationship. I want... Continue Reading →
Have you ever had a string dangling on a sweater cuff or hem line? You think, I'll just pull on that sucker and pop it off, only to find that as you pull, the cuff or hem begins to unravel. The harder or longer you pull, the more it unravels. It seems the older I get the more I understand that the unraveling is a metaphor or mirror image of life. So much of who we are and how act is "tied" to events or learnings of our younger days. As the thread of our life is pulled and examined, we see how our character, emotions, and actions were formed into the tapestry that we have become today.
How attitude, approach and focus can impact Life, Ministry, and Business I (Ricky), am a Continuous Improvement professional by trade. My job is identifying and solving problems within organizations businesses, and ministries. What I have learned over the years in this role is that processes in business organizations mimic those in life, and vice-versa. The... Continue Reading →
